The book titled
The Skilled Helper by Gerard Egan. As a helper, you must be
psychological, socially, and emotionally present as good as
physically present to the customer. Follow the guidance of SOLER is
the micro skills of attending, Squarely, Open posture, Lean toward
the other, Eye Contact and Relaxed. By using the concepts of
listening actively, listening accurately, and listening for
substance. Avoid distorted listening by not being biased, using
sound judgment and advice giving, allowing for stereotypes to
overcome, reinforcing self-pity and interrupting which can harm the
discussion. (pages 72-103). Clients dealing with self-defeating
challenges need a helper to apply goals to encourage them to think,
freely express their emotions,
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Effective
helpers help clients place reasonable demands on themselves and, in
the process help them value and celebrate their successes.
Challenging strengths help the client explore the assets and
resources they have but fail to use. Helpers must be sure that
self-challenge exercise does not become self-demeaning or
self-destructive. The main goal is to help clients challenge their
strengths rather than their weaknesses. (pages 192 212)The book
titled The Lost Art of Listening by Michael P. Nichols. A helper
is expected to know the importance of being a good listener. Not
being heard limits the client responsiveness and the simplest
things from distractions, looking around and interrupting are some
of the negative helpers actions that can trigger a sense of
rejection. The sincerest helper actively listens which motivates
the client and make them feel valued. The significant aspects of
listening are to obtain knowledge and to be fully available to
someone who is speaking, not to switch the conversation to yourself
that will cause misunderstandings. (pages 9-24) Being understood is
critical and very important to us. Listening is a major key to the
development of healthy
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